A clearer map
Plain-language distinctions between different kinds of closeness and attraction.
A private, reflective guide
Some feelings take a little room to name.
Kilig, Gusto, and Everything In Between
A calm place to notice what you feel, find words that fit, and take your time with the rest.
13-page PDF
English + a little Taglish
For adult readers
No quiz. No score. No need to decide anything today.
A line from inside
“Kilig is one question. Gusto is another.”
A few pages, at your own pace
A starting point, not a verdict.
This guide makes room for questions that can feel easier to notice than to explain. It offers language and prompts, not a required answer.
Words you can borrow
Terms to explore if useful, with room to keep your own wording, or none at all.
A private pause
Gentle reflection prompts, a printable page, and safety-first scripts in English and Taglish.
Philippine starting points
A short list of local support and reference resources to explore at your own discretion.
A gentle reminder
“You are not behind, and you do not have to answer any of these today.”
From the guide. Take what feels useful; leave the rest for another time.
Made with Filipino readers in mind
For your 20s, 30s, and every chapter after.
Written in English, with a little Taglish. Read in order, open to one page, or simply keep the questions that feel relevant.
“A word that fits today does not lock you in tomorrow.”
Another small line from the guideWhat does the guide explore?
It gently explores romantic and sexual orientation, how those feelings may align or differ, and the words people may choose for themselves. It is self-guided reflection, not a test or diagnosis.
The guide is not medical, psychological, or legal advice. You choose what to read, write down, or share.
When you’re ready
Read a little. Keep what helps.
A 13-page PDF e-book from Midnight Muni, in English with a little Taglish.
WHAT'S INSIDE
- A plain-language map of romantic vs sexual attraction
- Nine reflection prompts and a printable page
- Scripts for talking to people, in English and Taglish
- Philippine support links
How to get a copy of the guide
- Message us on Messenger and we'll send the QR code in the chat
- Pay ₱199 by GCash, then send your screenshot with the reference number
- Once your payment is verified, we'll send the guide in the chat
Private chat · ₱199 · GCash · You'll need Messenger
A self-reflection resource. Not medical, psychological, or legal advice. No prompt in the guide asks you to prove anything or arrive at a final identity.